Monday, January 28, 2008

Beckham: One Week



So I was supposed to have a baby today. It's on the calendar: 9:30 C-section. Well, we've been there, done that, so instead we spent the day getting Beckham to the doctor for his one-week check-up and doing a little birthday shopping for Denten.

Little Bex, as his auntie Kate calls him, is almost back to birth weight and tips the scales at a whopping 5 pounds 12 ounces. I can't even tell you how small that sounds to me. Five pounds! He's grown a little in length, but is still only in the 10%. He felt so huge inside of me, I didn't think he could get much bigger, but he's such a little guy out here in the big world!
He's eating and sleeping great, has a pleasant little demeanor and is already learning to be patient with the chaos that will probably surround him for much of his little life.



I am still completely in awe of him, I could just sit and stare at his sweet little face all day, except that I have two other sweet faces that like a little attention too.





In my effort to continue to be grateful for the things that surround me, I'd like to make note of how grateful I am for a husband who is being incredibly patient as I figure out how to adjust to my current state. A state that restricts me from many of my normal duties including picking up anything heavier than Beckham and one that also includes horomones that are trying really hard to stay under control. Why am I crying? Well, sometimes I can explain it and sometimes I can't! Like I said, patient guy.

I'm also incredibly grateful to have my mother here right now. Not only does she endure the weepy spells with great understanding, but she stayed with all three of the kiddos today while we went out and when we returned she was washing my windows and dusting the blinds! And she wonders if she's being any help around here! With my physical limitations, it is wonderful to have her here to tend to Seneca and Cooper. I am very grateful to have a wonderful friend in my mother. There really is no one else I can talk to about some of the things I've gone through lately and be assured there will be no judgement. I feel very blessed that as close as Heavenly Father was to taking her from us years ago, he recognized how much I'd need her.

14 comments:

Lindsay said...

oh my gosh! I cant believe coop is sitting still long enough to feed Seneca. I love that picture!

Kelly said...

Oh, Amberly! He is so cute! That first picture with the grin is fantastic.

I'm glad you have so much help at home. Moms are the best at times like these. I've been thinking about you.

Sandi said...

That first picture is priceless. I hope that depicts his entire life experience. And what a great thing to say about your Mom. Wish I could spend more time with you so I could get to know her while she is here.

bryn said...

i am really glad all is going well, in what i can only imagine is a very hectic time. your children are darling, your grateful lists inspiring, and your candor refreshing! having a good week.

Karen said...

He is go cute. I am glad your mom is there to help you. I remember the first two weeks being very emotional. Hang in there.

Kari said...

I love that first pic! He's really cute, got a cute face, even at a week old! Congrats again, I bet you're so thrilled. :)

The Malone's said...

I have to hand it to you, you've got it together in more ways than you think. I mean look at you, you're posting regular blogs, with cute kid pictures, you're out and about and you're surfing other peoples blogs. You're amazing. Isn't it funny though when you think that there is this hugh being inside of you and they come out all small and perfect? Enjoy them while their little, nothing else matters!

Scrap Happy said...

So did you get a double stroller, or are both of them somehow sitting in your old one??

I LOVE that first picture. THAT'S the one that should be on a baby announcement...

Emily said...

First of all the picture of Coop feeding Seneca is priceless. It made me tear up. Sometimes they just know what you need and do it and we have to savor those moments, because they are extremely few and far between.

As for the weepy spells, you are talking to a woman who has had 3 bouts of PPD, my thoughts on the matter are that antidepressents are a BEAUTIFUL thing. I know most just snap out of it after a week or so, but my body has no clue how to do that on it's own. So I say thank heavens for drugs!

And I have a huge smile on my face about your mom. When my parents were here watching our kids last week my mom was so hoping to get some cleaning done for me. (I think blinds were on her list) However a little 18 month old cyclone who we have decided is a mini version of his Grandpa Brad kept her a bit too busy for anything but him. Anyway, I am so glad your mom can be there for you right now. And when she finally does have to leave and you cry hysterically and have no idea how you are going to survive, just know that it's totally normal...well at least for us Banks girls...and that you will survive!

And last, in regards to an earlier comment about birth announcements. I'm pretty sure you have to be completely insane to even attempt those with the 3rd.

I love you Ambers, keep hanging in there and don't forget to laugh,

Em

tenacious d said...

Tamara rocks! She's just a wonderful person, let alone great mom and friend.

That first picture of Becks is the cutest newborn picture I have ever seen! I love that Coop and Seneca have such big smiles on their faces, despite their world being a little rocked right now.

You are one blessed girl, and you obviously know it!

Betsy said...

Hi- I'm Justin's sister and know Denton from when he interned at the ICAO in Iron County, UT.. anyway, Justin was telling us about your new baby when he was visiting, so I wanted to see for myself. You have a BEAUTIFUL family and please tell your husband hello for me.

Betsy (Miller) C.

Stephens Family said...

Hi Amberly! This is Emily Stephens from the ward. I was spying on Shellie's blog and came across yours. CONGRATS on the new little one. How amazing! Make me almost ready for #2. See you later!

Jana said...

OK, first things first. CONGRATS!!! I haven't had much time to check blogs lately so I totally missed that you had the baby. He is darling. I love that pic of him smiling. Too cute. All you children are adorable. I am sure Cooper is loving being the big brother. It sounds like everything is going great. I am so happy for you guys. Keep posting pics of him.

The Silly Witch said...

I'm sure it's just all so very very overwhelming. I'm glad you have your mom there too. I love your pictures.